Addiction and Mental Health Disorder Intervention Services in Maine

Our S.A.F.E.® (Self Awareness Family Education™) Intervention Services and Family Recovery Coaching Program Provide Families in Maine Comfort, Knowing They Have Done Everything They Can to Help Their Loved One Experiencing Addiction and Mental Health Disorders.

Many families we speak with concede that the last few years of their lives have been centered around managing chaos. As families wait for their loved ones to reach their bottom or ask for help, they find themselves living a nightmare that never ends. Families in Maine and anywhere else in the country no longer must live this way. The belief that families and others must wait for the one who needs help to make the first move often leads to inaction for the family and the loved one experiencing mental health and addiction concerns. While families and others may not have direct control over someone experiencing mental health and addiction problems, they do have direct control over how they go about addressing them. The illusion that one day your loved one will say today is the day I will change is nothing more than false hope. A few may have done this, and the likelihood of it happening without any negative impact is highly unlikely. Someone needing help to make a positive change must face negative consequences. The consequences come from the environment, one of the number one predictors of outcomes in addiction and mental health treatment. Our addiction and mental health intervention services primarily focus on this as the starting point of our curriculum. 

With the help of our S.A.F.E.® Addiction and Mental Health Intervention Services, families learn how to adjust their loved ones’ environment and help their loved ones see things differently. Many interventionists in Maine and elsewhere draw your attention to the intervention consisting only of talking to the one who needs help with treatment. Although this is a part of an addiction and mental health intervention, it is only a tiny part. The only thing a family can do is offer their loved one help, change the way they have been trying to correct the problem, address the acquired family role, stop enabling, detach, hold their loved one accountable to feel the consequences, start their recovery program as a family, and provide themselves closure knowing they did all they could to help both themselves and their loved one. It seems simple, but it is not; a lot is involved, which is why you need a professional. Please remember that when we say do it yourself, we mean alongside a professional.

Families in Maine Do Not Have to Wait for Their Loved One to Ask for Help or Hit Bottom Before Initiating Intervention Services for Addiction and Mental Health Concerns.

We have all heard that if you want something done right, you must do it yourself. In this case, we are not suggesting you do anything without a professional. We are referring to the fact that if you want something done right, do not rely on or wait for the one with addiction and mental health concerns to come up with an effective solution. When families believe they must wait for their loved one to ask for help, the family becomes further entangled in addiction, mental health, chaos, insanity, and dysfunction. The longer a family waits, the harder it becomes for their loved one to ask for help and the harder it is for the family to accept the change, good or bad. We are saying that the longer this continues, the more difficult it becomes for all affected. The longer it continues, the more fear is acquired, and eventually, the fear of change becomes more significant than the fear of staying the same. What happens next is the fear of getting sober or becoming independent for the person with an addiction, alcohol problem, or mental disorder, which builds alongside the family’s fears of letting go of their maladaptive coping skills. 

Families in Maine and elsewhere have choices. The choices are to wait for their loved one to make the first move or make the first move with professionals. Your family is already at the bottom, while your family waits for them to hit bottom. Why can’t we start saying nothing will change until the family reaches its bottom and holds its loved ones accountable by setting boundaries and letting go of enabling codependency, anger, resentment, maladaptive behaviors, and coping skills? Looking at it that way sounds much better than waiting for someone incapable of asking for help and not feeling at the bottom to ask for help. Telling people to wait for someone to ask for help when they are comforted and provided with all the maladaptive help they need is like standing on a piece of carpet trying to pick it up from under your feet; you must get off the rug and out of the way first. The next time someone says you must wait for the one with mental health and addiction concerns to initiate change, you can say I am not waiting for you to hit bottom because I am at my bottom. Whether or not they like what I am doing, I am changing because I can’t live this way anymore. 

Initial Consultation

Our process starts with a phone call to our office. When the family agrees, we move to a family consultation call. We begin the assessment phase after the family has approved the intervention.

Arranging the Treatment Plan and the Logistics for the Intervention

The next step is arranging the treatment plan and the logistics for the intervention. Upon arrival, our interventionist utilizes our S.A.F.E.® Intervention and Family Recovery Coaching manual as a guide.

Face-To-Face Intervention

The following day is the face-to-face intervention with your family, the interventionist, and your loved one. Regardless of the outcome, your family will move into our S.A.F.E.® program for guidance and support. The S.A.F.E.® curriculum consists of weekly family meetings with several support groups offered throughout the week. One-on-one support is available and reserved for families actively engaged in our meetings and support groups. Families are assigned homework assignments to work on goals and process the work they do for themselves outside of the S.A.F.E.® curriculum.

Outside Work for Families

The outside work can include Al-Anon, Families Anonymous, CoDA, A.C.O.A. meetings, marriage and family therapy, and individual counseling. We also encourage families to participate in hobbies and self-care activities. The S.A.F.E.® Addiction and Mental Health Intervention Services and Family Recovery Coaching program is designed to help families take their lives back, regardless of whether their loved one agrees to accept your gift of a second chance at life.